How to Deal with the Non-Believers - Queen of Manifestation

How to Deal with the Non-Believers

I’ve been getting a lot of the exact same question from clients lately. So of course I had to make a video with my answer to share with you.

The question:

How do you deal with loved ones who are non-believers and unsupportive as you’re manifesting?

The obvious answer:

Stop spending so much time with those people who bring you down, and start spending more time with people who will nurture your dreams, cheer you on, and celebrate your successes.

But it’s not so easy when that person is a lover, partner, mother, or daughter.

You want them to join you in your vision. And their opinions are affecting you.

In this week’s video I share with you exactly what conversations you can have with yourself and with them in order to move through this and stay positive as you go for your big dream:

Awesome. You now have the tools to deal with whatever negative feedback comes your way. You can do this.  I believe in you.

The more you believe in your own power, the easier it will be to brush off the disbelief in others.

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The next step:

Have a conversation with your loved one about their concerns. Come with an open mind. Listen to what they have to say.

If your loved ones aren’t on board with your big dream, chances are they’re afraid. Talk to them.

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Once you’ve gotten in touch with their fear, you can easily address it. When you see the other person’s concerns from a heart-to-heart level, you won’t be as affected by negative feedback.

Trust in yourself. You have the power to create your best life. All you need to do is believe.

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Now I want to hear from you.

How have you dealt with the non-believers in your life?  Do you have a tip that I didn’t include in the video? And if you have a loved one in your life who’s a doubter, I invite you to come back to this page to report how your conversations go! We all can benefit from your experiences.

xoxo, Jen
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Sofia Wren Reply

Great topic! Thanks for making this video, great reminder

Sabrina at MyMiBoSo Reply

The power of belief is so strong – and I love how you address how important it is to protect our belief in our selves (especially when loved ones are inadvertently transferring their own fears over).

Understanding where someone else is coming from is HUGE as shining light on the fear releases its power – thank you for this reminder Jen!

Krista Reply

So true…and so often experienced by an entrepreneur. Thank you for your insight and suggestions. Very helpful…not an easy part of being an entrep, for sure! 🙂

Mindy Crary Reply

This is a great post and such a good reminder that loved ones need to be involved. There are a million ways to get to a desire, so it’s important that loved ones buy into the higher vision without getting too caught up in the details.. And i agree with all of the comments here, TRUST is essential!

    jen Reply

    Yes, thanks Mindy!

Alanna Reply

I love this post!! Thank you so much for the tips!! I will definitely come back to your site again!!

    jen Reply

    You’re so welcome Alanna. Thank you! Excited to have you as part of the Manifestation community. xoxo

Phyllis Wilson Reply

Ooooh, this is a great topic! I teach big-hearted, sensitive souls to let go of other people’s “stuff” that’s dragging them down and learn to celebrate their sensitivity. As you can imagine, THIS is one of the biggest challenges we face! I’ve found that realizing that our loved ones are acting out of fear & a desire to protect us is really the key; that shift in perspective opens up the opportunity to have the conversation and to actually feel empowered, rather than disadvantaged when we have it. Because really, in those situations, our loved ones are feeling EXACTLY the way we as helpers/caretakers feel all the time! It’s just that they express it in a different way.

    jen Reply

    YES Phyllis!

Lorna Reply

Jen, this video is so timely for me. I have learned to embrace manifestation and many other concepts that have allowed me to let go of my controlling nature and live in the moment. I work with my clients on the same practices. The problem I have is when I try to talk about things with my kids. They grew up with the old me and so they have many of my old bad habits. Now that I have seen that there is a different way to live, it is so hard to watch them struggle. Your tips are spot on and I will keep them in mind. Thanks!


    jen Reply

    Love that Lorna. So happy that it came at the perfect time. And I have a feeling your kids will pick up on the new habits that you have. xx

Jasmaine Reply

I agree with you! I have recently discovered that the best thing to do is to TRUST myself. Even when people that are major players in my process and progress stop believing… I have learned that Trusting myself and seeing their light regardless of their fears will lead me to victory every single time. Victory looking like fulfillment and standing my ground, staying in the love of all. Thank you for this enlightening post. Thank you for being and bring light. 🙂

    jen Reply

    Oh yay, I love that Jasmaine. Yes, so true. It’s all about trusting yourself. And you are so welcome. Thank YOU for shining your light. xoxo

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