How to Feel Worthy of your Dreams

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I’ve been having so much fun teaching the amazing women in my Money Masters program how to step into their abundance.

And last week on our coaching call, I noticed a major theme come up. It was so major that I wanted to record a video for you about it.

You see, on the phone with me were these amazing powerhouse women from all over the world. And yet no matter what they’ve already achieved in their lives (motherhood, successful careers, owning their own homes, etc.) – they still struggled with the same thing.

When we got down to the root of why they weren’t growing at the rate they wanted to, it was because they didn’t feel worthy of their dreams.

These women could expand their visions and get excited about their dreams. But on the inside, they didn’t truly value themselves and what they had to offer to the world.

And that is so key for manifesting.

It wasn’t a conscious belief. We really did a lot of inner work to uncover what was beneath the surface. And I have a feeling that you might have that same thought lingering there – preventing you from taking action on your dreams.

If you want other people to value you and your services, you’ll need to first build up that muscle for yourself.

I starts with your own self-worth.

If you’ve got doubts that you can truly manifest such a big vision because you’re not sure you’re good enough… If you have a hard time charging what you’re worth and asking for the sale, or you know that it’s time you got a raise, had that amazing relationship, or owned your dream home, this is for you.

Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how you can feel worthy of your dreams:

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Manifesting Peace?

There’s a beautiful Desmond Tutu quote: “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.”

This is not a time to be silent. It’s a time to spread love.

With the devastating news around the world, it’s a time of deep pain and sadness for many people around the planet. Just when you start to feel hopeful, another piece of news shows up.

And many of you may be asking yourself, ‘How can we manifest peace? Is it even possible?’

Yes, it is.

A lot of the injustices around the planet are not new. But there is a spotlight on them right now. And in that spotlight, it’s an opportunity to make a shift.

You’ve heard me say it before, but behind every obstacle is an opportunity.

You may know from pictures on facebook that my partner is black. That we have a daughter together. But you may not know that I also have a white cousin who is a police officer. I empathize with all those who are hurting right now. Not just in America, but around the world. It’s in understanding the other’s perspective that we can truly have healing.

This is our family from the other night on the tour bus after my love’s concert in New York City.

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Our daughter for now only knows that she’s a perfect mix of mommy and daddy. She’s an artist, so we talk of skin color as we do mixing paint. We do our best to teach her about both of our cultures. She’s been to Nigeria twice so far. She’s got friends of all races. She’s enrolled in an African summer camp. And she’s going to a Waldorf Kindergarten next year. She will grow up and simply be seen in the world as black. I want her to grow up in a world where she’s celebrated for her skin color, not discriminated against. [Read more…]

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How to Manifest with Mercury Retrograde

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Here it is – Mercury Retrograde.

Manifesting in Mercury Retrograde doesn’t have to be as scary as it sounds…

This retrograde period gives us time and space to really examine our motivations, beliefs and goals.

It’s the perfect time to dig deep, focus on yourself, and consider ways that you want to improve your life and realign with your true desires.

It’s a time to pause, reflect, and reconnect. 

Clear your space and your mind. Clear the clutter that no longer serves you.

Do you want to know how to use this retrograde in your favor?

Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how to use this retrograde to manifest and find opportunities.  [Read more…]

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How to Deal with Resistance

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Resistance.

Let’s face it. We all experience resistance at one point or another.

Maybe you’re dealing with it right now.

I was resisting earlier today.

I’m in the middle of writing my first book, and I was resisting setting aside the time to sit down and write it. I’m actually really excited about the book! But I was still resisting.

Have you ever felt resistance towards something that you’re excited about? Something that you know will be really good for you?

Well I’m happy to report that I spent the morning writing, and I feel SO good about how it’s all coming together!

Do you want to know how I overcame my resistance?

 

Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how to overcome resistance. It’s easier than you think:

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Strategies for Getting Clear on Your Vision

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Can you believe it’s mid-December already?

And it’s about this time of year that we all start to think about setting goals for the next year.

So do you know what you want?

I mean, what you really, REALLY want to manifest?

For a lot of people, that’s a hard question to answer.

But if you’re not clear on what you want, you can’t manifest it.

You know that your thoughts are creating your reality. So if you’re stuck with trying to figure out what you want, there’s a problem.

I wanted to give you 7 different ways you can find out what you truly want to manifest. This is the right time to get clear.

It’s step #1 in manifesting.

And often times, we need to go back to that step to reassess goals. Certain things you may have thought you wanted no longer resonate with you.

Or you have a bunch of ideas, but you aren’t sure which one is for you.

You need clarity.

 
Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how you get crystal clear on what you want to manifest:

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The Oprah Effect

Yesterday, after an event for women entrepreneurs put on by a friend, I left feeling inspired.

I was on a high from connecting with other women who shared my same passion and enthusiasm for what they were doing in the world.

So I did what all women do when they’re feeling inspired!

I stopped and bought a new pair of shoes, and then headed home. 😉

As I sat down on the NYC subway, I opened up the new edition of Fast Company magazine with Oprah Winfrey on the cover.

I was so excited to dive into her feature article because Oprah is one of my biggest inspirations.

And like her, I have a bunch of projects on the fire right now. So I wanted to learn how she manages it all.

(Side note: Have you seen Oprah’s new ‘Belief‘ series? It’s INCREDIBLE. Beyond incredible! You have to watch it.)

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So I’m sitting there reading my Fast Company magazine with Oprah on the cover, and these two guys sit down next to me. The one to my right asks me, “What are you reading?”

I show him the magazine and tell him how much I love the article.

He seems engaged. He’s really interested in what Fast Company is all about. And I tell him how much I love their magazine, that it’s great for entrepreneurs and aspiring entrepreneurs.

He asks me more about the magazine.

And next he asks if he can have it.

 
Not just read it.. or borrow it, but straight up, “Can I have it?”

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How to Have a Consistent Practice

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Okay, time to admit it…

I’m not perfect.

 
There, I said it.

And do you know what?

It’s so liberating!

Yes, I’m the Queen of Manifestation, but I too fall off the wagon sometimes.

I don’t always do every single thing that I know I’m “supposed” to do.

And it wasn’t that long ago that I used to struggle to meditate every day.

I may have a beautiful manifestation practice, but there are plenty of days that I don’t accomplish everything that I set out to do.

Because, let’s face it:

Life happens.

 
And I have a feeling that you too have things you intend to do, but don’t end up getting done.

And it’s not for lack of trying!

Yes, consistency is key – but how do you stay consistent?

 
That’s what I want to share in this week’s video.

Through this simple 5 step process I’ve become better at being consistent with my own practice – so that if there’s a day that I don’t meditate or write my gratitude list, I know exactly how to get back on the wagon and continue in the right direction to experience the results I desire.

And that’s what I want for you too!

Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how you can maintain a consistent practice:

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5 Easy Steps to Deal with Disappointment

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No matter what a great planner you are, how well you write out your intentions, and how much action you take towards your dreams, there’s thing that’s sure to happen in your life… at least once.

And that’s Disappointment.

You could have gone for a great job interview only to find out they gave the position to someone else.

Or you were in what you thought was a really great relationship, and then your partner totally let you down.

Maybe you had a client drop the ball on a payment.

Or your kids didn’t do what you expected of them.

You’re disappointed.
And it’s okay.

Disappointment happens!

(tweet that.)

It’s actually a part of the manifesting process.

The most successful people in the world actually plan for disappointment!

Why would they do that?

Because if you never stretch outside of your comfort zone, you won’t experience anything new. You’ll stay stagnant.

And stretching yourself means you’re bound to get a few rejections, or to be disappointed in an outcome.

It’s simply part of the equation.

But if you reframe it in the right way, those disappointments can lead you to new heights.

Let’s face it, not everything may go according to how you envisioned it.

But if you follow these 5 steps that I share in the video below, you can overcome disappointment in the most positive way – one that leads to something even better than what you could have imagined before it.

If you’ve been feeling stuck lately, or you had someone recently let you down – whether it be a client, a friend, a co-worker or a loved one… This video is for you!

Do yourself a favor. Take 5 minutes and watch it now.

Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how you can deal with disappointment:

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Should you focus on the Big Dream or the one right in front of you?

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If you’re anything like me, you have big, Big, BIG dreams for yourself.

But you also probably have a bunch of smaller dreams, or opportunities that are right in front of you now.

And they may or may not be related to that big dream – You know, the one your heart does a little dance just thinking about.

So – in terms of manifesting, which dream should you focus on first?

The one right in front of you… The “easy” one.
OR
the big dream… The “scary” one.

Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out which dream to focus on first for your success:

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Your Completion List

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There’s a crucial step in manifesting that is often overlooked. And that is:
Making space for that which you desire.

This Blue Moon – the once in a lifetime Full Moon that happened on Friday – is still energetically affecting us for the next 2 weeks. And this is the perfect time to do one of my favorite things..

Completion!

I’ve been busy at it all day.. And I’m excited to actually complete a lot of things that have been lingering. There are different ways to do this. But the best way is to create a Completion List.

What is a completion list?

 
Watch this week’s Manifest Monday’s video to find out how you can use a Completion List to make space for your dreams:

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